The explanation for the text messages has been bantered back and forth a thousand times since I found them on Friday. In the interest of fairness, the claim is this:
The girl has a thing for the fiance’. (I know this to be true). The fiance’ was at a friend’s house drinking until all hours of the night in a snowstorm (also true). He drunkenly thought he’d flirt with the girl by text message and con her into giving him a ride home (also probably true).
But this is the thing. And what I told him tonight I didn’t think I could “get over” in the immediate future. I never saw being married and having him still charming other girls for rides or drinks or whatever. No, I do not have a car. But, it shouldn’t have seemed ok to use her willingness to do anything he says, even for a ride in a blizzard. That just plain should have seemed inappropriate. And honestly, and I told him this, I expect him to treat women better than that anyway.
Even if it is the other woman.